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25/10/2022
Why is your Man Yelling 5 Reasons
When men start yelling and don't feel good about their psychology it is due to many reasons. Usually when a man yells, he may have a lot on his mind, many obligations that are not done, resulting in him being very stressed and unable to control his anger and voice. So in this article of our magazine you will see what are the reasons why a man shouts and what are the ways to deal with this difficult situation that affects you too.
What is the reason for yelling
1. Short temper
He has an irritable and nervous character. That is, his character is like that and he cannot deal with situations calmly but only with shouts and screams. It is difficult to change this Yelling character. Usually this character cannot deal with the problems that may exist either inside the house or that has to do with his work. He is overcome by nervousness, causing him to shout and have a lot of nerves.
2. He is stressed
He can be anxious, anxious over the slightest thing and unable to handle various situations. Usually anxiety has to do with character. He wants to be a perfectionist in everything he does and this creates incredible stress for him. He can also get stressed about his work and not be able to manage it properly, as a result of which he shouts and has a lot of nerves.
3. There are problems that cannot be solved
There are problems Yelling that cannot be solved. This may have to do with his work but also with your relationship. He may see in his work that there are many problems and he cannot solve them, as a result when he comes home he has a lot of nerves and lashes out at you at the slightest thing you say or do. He may also see that your relationship has a problem and cannot be resolved.
4. You don't take on your own obligations
You don't take on your obligations, that is, he may have told you many times to do some things, whether it has to do with outside work that he doesn't have time to do due to limited time, or it concerns your home. And you don't take it upon yourself to do them and neglect everything, as a result of which this has tired him out and made him nervous. As a result, he starts yelling at you and this ends up in you arguing with each other.
5. Too much weight falls on him
The whole burden has fallen on him with various obligations, whether it has to do with his work or household obligations. As a result, he starts shouting and is constantly nervous. He cannot handle this situation, i.e. having everything fall on him. He feels that he needs help from you too, that is to say that both of you share the obligations and the jobs that need to be done..
Is yelling normal in a relationship
1. Talk to him nicely
Try to open a dialogue with the good word. Be kind to him. Talk about the problems that are causing him to be nervous and yell. Communication between couples always helps a lot to improve the existing situation. Tell him that a solution to his problem will be found with your help. That is, you will help and you will always be by his side in whatever he needs.
2. Explain to him that this situation cannot be tolerated
He explained to him that this situation with the voices and nerves cannot continue. Tell him that you too can't handle this situation which is putting you down too psychologically. Tell him that a solution must be found to the problems you have and this situation must be solved Yelling immediately. Nerves do not solve problems. Yelling will only bring more problems and the situation will get worse between you.
3. Take on your own responsibilities
Take initiative and assume your own responsibilities. Do things that might help your partner. You too take responsibility for various things concerning the issues that concern you and you see that they are not resolved. Things will get better if you also take responsibility and initiative to do things. His nerves will be restrained and he will not shout no matter what.
4. Don't go against the moment of conflict (talk to him when the situation defuses)
Don't turn on him when you're arguing. Things will become much worse than they were. Wait for the situation to calm down and then try to calmly talk to him and explain that yelling won't change anything, it will only make things worse between you. Let him vent and don't go against him the moment you have a conflict between you.
5. Ask your people how to deal with the situation (don't try to solve the problems yourself)
Talk to your own people either your family, or friends you trust and know will stay between you and only you. Your family as well as your friends will be by your side to help you. Explain this situation ands asks for their advice.
When you act alone the problem always seems much bigger. But if you have allies, you might see things from a different perspective.
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